Q: Are there any particular pitfalls to living in a shared house?
A: It's important when hunting for a shared house
to be clear about your own "wants" and "don't wants"
and others' needs. If you're not, difficulties can emerge
during the tenancy - most are fixed-term
tenancies which mean it is difficult to get out of your contract
and leave the property before that fixed term is up.
Generally, there are no golden rules that make for a good house
share. There is a theory that mixed (male and female houses) work
better than single-sex households and that one woman sharing a house
with several males tends not to be a good arrangement. This
theory holds good for many cases, but by no means all.
If you decide that you do not, after all, want to live with the
people you agreed to share with, say so before signing a contract.
It will spare you real problems in the long run.
Women students should weigh up all the implications of living in
an otherwise all-male house. You may feel perfectly at ease
with the group but there may be times when you are alone at night
with just one of them - will you still feel comfortable then?
Q: Should I live with friends?
A: If you agree to share with people you do not know at
all you will be taking a limited risk - but often these house shares
are as successful as those between friends, because the level of
formality in agreeing sharing arrangements between people who do
not know each other makes for a smooth sharing arrangement over
the year, whereas disagreements between friends can be avoided and
remain dormant within the sharing arrangement until there is some
crisis when the house is being occupied. Reducing
the risks: Security
Q: What about sharing with my partner?
A:
Some students (particularly second and later year students) decide
to live with a partner in which case a large bedsit, a self-contained
flat or a small house would be the best choice. Self contained flats
form about 8% of student occupancy and although they are the most
expensive form of accommodation, if two people are paying the rent
they can actually be cheaper, or no more expensive, than renting
a room in a shared house.
In signing any fixed term agreement it is important to take a realistic
view about the nature of your relationship with your partner and
the legal commitment you will be making in sharing a flat - will
your relationship last longer than your contract?
Q: What about smoking and smokers?
A: One of the more common causes of friction in houses
relates to smokers and non-smokers. There are some people who really
cannot stand the smell of smoke in a house (and there may even be
medical conditions that this can trigger) so it is important to
consider this issue before you form a group to rent a house. If
you are sharing with friends you will know about this issue and
the problems can probably be resolved (allowing smoking in
individual rooms but not in the communal areas for example).
If you are renting from a University or College the problem is
more complex because you do not know who you might be sharing with.
Most application forms allow you to express a preference about smoking
but many students are not entirely honest about being smokers when
they are filling in their forms, or they start smoking between when
they filled the form in and when they arrive at the room.
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